Publisher's Synopsis
"Most people spend far more time in preparation for their vocation than they do in preparation for marriage," No wonder the divorce rate hovers around fifty percent.Marriage between men and women is the basis of all human societies. The reality is that when children grow up, most of them get married. There are more than two million marriages in the United States annually; Four million people say, "Do you want this man to be your married man?"."Will you have this woman as a wife?" Almost all these couples want lovely and happy marriage life. No one marries hoping to be unhappy or to make their spouse unhappy. However, we all know that the divorce rate in Western cultures remains around fifty percent and that the highest divorce rate occurs during the first seven years of marriage.People don't understand marriage separation. Planning divorce is the result of a lack of preparation for marriage and the inability to learn the skills needed to work as a teammate in an intimate relationship. The irony is that we recognize the need for education in all other spheres of life and that we do not acknowledge this need with regard to marriage. Many people spend much more time preparing for their party than preparing for the wedding. Therefore, it is not surprising that they have more professional success than achieving the goal of marital happiness.The decision to get married will affect life more than almost any decision in life. However, people are still getting married without preparing to get married success. In fact, many couples place much more emphasis on marriage plans than on marriage plans. The wedding ceremony lasts only a few hours, while it is expected to last a lifetime.This is not a book on how to strategy a wedding. This is a book on how to have an effective marriage. I spent the many years of my life with couples whose dreams of a happy real-life wedding were spent with dirty dishes, unpaid bills, clashing business hours and crying babies. Many of these couples had good marriages with hard work and months of counselling. I am grateful for that.
