Publisher's Synopsis
GIVE AWAY YOUR HEART, but dont lose your mind. Know the deal youre getting into. Know that self-preservation is the key to a happy marriage and a happy divorce. We dont take a job expecting that well hate it and quit. We dont sign the lease on an apartment well be sick of in six months, and we dont enter into a relationship planning for the breakup. But the flip side is that we shouldnt expect any relationship we enter into will save us from the responsibility of being self-sufficient. No matter where you are in the processdating, engaged, married, contemplating separation, and divorceif you can realize why you have to put yourself first, youre halfway there. Whether youre in the rapturous throes of endless love or the first moments of stomach-churning awareness that your marriage is falling apart, this book is for you. Its for every woman who understands that self-preservation will not happen if you rely on someone else to save you. You need to maintainor begin to establish your personal independence and financial solvency if you want to be self-sufficient no matter what life throws at you. You can lean on someone, but you have to be able to stand on your own two feet at a moments notice, and thats what this book is about.
