Publisher's Synopsis
What if... you're successful in the rest of your life, like in the workplace and social interactions. You are out there in the world, making things happen - but not at home. What if... everything you've ever been told about how to fix your dying marriage was actually steering you in the wrong direction? What if... the power to radically transform your relationship for the better was in your hands -- and always had been? What if... you could unravel the mystery behind your reactions and go from marital distress -- to success? This book is for every man who has fought to have a healthy and happy home and feels like he has failed. Our story, told by a husband and wife takes a dramatically different stance. In our ground-breaking new book When It's All Her Fault you'll hear how we approached the brink of the abyss and came out on the other side. As a man I didn't need more information about how to "be more romantic" or "listen better" or advice "to go buy her flowers." I just needed to roll up my sleeves and turn and face the things that I was resisting and master the issues I was avoiding. What was the outcome? Our marriage is better now than I/we ever thought it could be. Come join us on the journey. So let's cut through the cultural messages that aren't serving you or your marriage and let's deal with the things that need to be dealt with. Wouldn't you like to see how I did it? My wife Janet and I had actually gotten to the point where we looked at each other and said, "You know what? Let's just let this thing die. It's already dead anyway...." And now look at us! You can pull up some weeds by lopping off the tops, but they'll just come right back. I figured out how to get at the roots of the problem and now there's no way I'd ever go back. Learn what's tripping you up that you can't even see. Learn how to face those things you think you can't face. Learn how to fill up your cup at the fountain of marriage, so that your home life is happy, close and fulfilling. There was hope for me, though I fought it tooth and nail at first. I know there's hope for you too.
